Divorce coaching, parenting plans, and high-conflict co-parenting guidance
for parents who want calmer, safer,
more child-centered outcomes.
*Get Immediate Access + Build Your Own Parenting Plan*
Cristin Terri
The Untangled Parenting Plan System
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When you’re navigating separation or divorce, it’s not the emotions alone that overwhelm you — it’s the decisions.
TUPPS is a practical, step-by-step digital system designed to help parents gain clarity, reduce conflict, and make calm, child-centred decisions around co-parenting and parenting plans.
Whether you’re just starting out or already deep in the process, TUPPS gives you structure, guidance, and a clear way forward — without pressure or guesswork.
Available as:
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TUPPS Core — a self-guided system to help you think things through clearly
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TUPPS Premium — includes everything in Core plus a private 60-minute strategy session for personalised support
Save on Legal Costs. Outdated Templates that don't work in real life and Start your co-parenting journey with the right knowledge, tools and support!
The Child-Centred Divorce Guide
A Guide For Parents Who Want To Protect Their Children Emotionally Through Divorce
Divorce impacts children deeply — even when parents are doing their best.
This guide helps parents better understand:
What children experience emotionally during divorce,
How to reduce emotional harm, and
How to create more safety, stability, and connection through major family transitions.
Inside, you’ll learn about:
• Emotional regulation & nervous system
safety
• Loyalty conflicts & emotional overwhelm
• Age-appropriate support for children
• Transitions between homes
• Communication, routines & emotionalsafety
• High-conflict dynamics & protectingchildren from adult stress
• Introducing new partners & blendedfamily transitions
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Why I Do This Work
I know firsthand the challenges of navigating divorce and parenting. I grew up with divorce in my family, and in 2020 I went through my own — while raising a toddler and preparing to welcome my second son. I’ve felt the loneliness, the overwhelm, and the pressure to hold my children steady while my own world was shifting.
What I discovered is this: divorce doesn’t just end a marriage, it reshapes a family. Our children get one childhood, and they don’t get a rewrite. Divorce is our rewrite — our chance to protect their peace and build a future we’re proud of.
That’s why I started Gracefully Untangled and built my signature system & course The Untangled Parenting Plan System (TUPPS)™ and Untangled & Thriving™. To give parents the tools, clarity, and calm I wish had existed when I was a child — and what I craved as a single mother learning to co-parent.
Because it’s not the divorce itself — it’s how you divorce that shapes your children’s story.
*** Already helping women across South Africa & Globally navigate divorce with grace.
Testimonials
“Cristin is going to help so many women, she has supported me immensely and my journey wouldn't be the same without her” — Leanne.S.
“The Parenting Plan System saved me thousands in legal fees. I walked into mediation with a plan that my lawyer didn’t even have to rewrite.” — Sarah P.
“Cristin’s questions in the Parenting Plan Kit forced me to think about things I wouldn’t have even considered until they became a fight later. It gave me peace of mind.” — Kelly B.
“Cristin helped me prep for mediation. Before the call I was an emotional wreck, afterwards I felt calm, clear and prepared” — Molly .T.
“The Guidebook is filled with so many insightful tips and guidance on supporting your kids. Thank you it was a great read, I learnt a lot."— Nadine L.