I help parents untangle the chaos of divorce and build calmer, child-centered lives — without losing themselves in the process.
Cristin Terri
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Why I Do This Work
I know firsthand the challenges of navigating divorce and parenting. I grew up with divorce in my family, and in 2020 I went through my own — while raising a toddler and preparing to welcome my second son. I’ve felt the loneliness, the overwhelm, and the pressure to hold my children steady while my own world was shifting.
What I discovered is this: divorce doesn’t just end a marriage, it reshapes a family. Our children get one childhood, and they don’t get a rewrite. Divorce is our rewrite — our chance to protect their peace and build a future we’re proud of.
That’s why I started Gracefully Untangled and built my signature system & course The Untangled Parenting Plan System (TUPPS)™ and Untangled & Thriving™. To give parents the tools, clarity, and calm I wish had existed when I was a child — and what I craved as a single mother learning to co-parent.
Because it’s not the divorce itself — it’s how you divorce that shapes your children’s story.
*** Already helping women across South Africa & Globally navigate divorce with grace.
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The Untangled Parenting Plan System
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When you’re navigating separation or divorce, it’s not the emotions alone that overwhelm you — it’s the decisions.
TUPPS is a practical, step-by-step digital system designed to help parents gain clarity, reduce conflict, and make calm, child-centred decisions around co-parenting and parenting plans.
Whether you’re just starting out or already deep in the process, TUPPS gives you structure, guidance, and a clear way forward — without pressure or guesswork.
Available as:
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TUPPS Basic — a self-guided system to help you think things through clearly
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TUPPS Premium — includes everything in Basic plus a private 60-minute strategy session for personalised support
Save on Legal Costs. Outdated Templates that don't work in real life and Start your co-parenting journey with the right knowledge, tools and support!
Testimonials
“I started Untangled & Thriving thinking I just needed help with boundaries, but I walked away with a complete shift in how I see myself as a mom.” — Lauren F.
“The Parenting Plan System saved me thousands in legal fees. I walked into mediation with a plan that my lawyer didn’t even have to rewrite.” — Sarah P.
“Cristin’s questions in the Parenting Plan Kit forced me to think about things I wouldn’t have even considered until they became a fight later. It gave me peace of mind.” — Kelly B.
“Module 5 on nervous system regulation was worth the whole program. My kids don’t get a dysregulated version of me anymore.” — Tanya M.
“I used to be so reactive. Now I feel steady, and my kids notice it too. Thank you Cristin, finding you made all the difference."— Nadine L.